By Bethany Hatton
When the business goes under, it feels like death. Not just of a company, but of the version of yourself who once stood tall behind the desk. Add addiction to the equation, and the aftermath isn’t just financial — it’s emotional carnage, too. There’s shame, there’s silence, and then there’s the question no one wants to ask out loud: now what?
Start Small, But Start Now
Nobody’s asking you to draft a five-year plan on day one. That first month in recovery, just keeping the lights on feels like an accomplishment. But here’s the truth: financial healing, like sobriety, is a daily decision. You start with the basics — tracking what’s left, setting up a bank account that isn’t tangled in old debts, canceling subscriptions that once seemed like necessities. The goal isn’t to make grand moves. It’s to regain a sense of control over the chaos. Even a handwritten budget on a napkin can be a life raft when you’re trying to stay afloat.
Own the Wreckage Without Letting It Define You
It’s tempting to hide. You don’t want to explain what happened to your clients, your investors, maybe not even to your family. But burying the story won’t help you move forward. Financial recovery starts with ownership — not public confessionals, but quiet honesty. You may have burned bridges, but not every one of them is gone forever. Rebuilding trust is less about words and more about showing up — to jobs, to meetings, to life — consistently and humbly. The financial damage may have come fast, but the repair will be slow. Let it be.
Starting Over on Your Terms
Launching a new venture after losing one can feel like walking barefoot over broken glass — every step is cautious, but you keep going anyway. This time around, it’s not about chasing status or scaling fast; it’s about building something sustainable, something that respects your recovery and your boundaries. Forming an LLC can offer a layer of protection between your personal assets and your business risks, which is more than just smart — it’s essential when you’ve already lost too much. And if you’re not in a place to shell out thousands in legal fees, platforms like ZenBusiness can help you file everything yourself or streamline the process with formation services that don’t break your fragile budget.
Get Comfortable Talking About Money Again
After a collapse, money becomes the elephant in every room. You avoid looking at bank statements, answering calls from creditors, or even checking your email. But, as Brain by Design explains, avoidance only gives the fear more power. Find one person — a friend, a therapist, a sponsor — and start having honest conversations about where things stand. You don’t need to know how you’ll pay off everything. You just need to stop pretending you’re fine when you’re not. Because when you start talking about it, solutions — even small ones — have a way of showing up.
Work With What You’ve Got, Not What You Lost
This one hurts. It means letting go of the lifestyle you once had, the image you once maintained, and the dreams that might not make sense anymore. You might be living in a smaller apartment, taking the bus, cooking at home instead of eating out. It can feel like punishment, but it’s not. It’s clarity. Every dollar matters more now, and strangely, that can be a gift. You start seeing value where you used to see status. That shift doesn’t just fix your finances — it recalibrates your whole relationship with money.
Find Work That Respects Your Recovery
You can’t rebuild your life if your job tears it down every week. That means seeking out work environments that understand addiction — or at least don’t make it worse. You may not land your dream gig right away, but you can find places that don’t glorify burnout or expect you to “just have one drink” at the company party. You deserve stability. You deserve health. You deserve to make money without compromising your sobriety. And those jobs exist, even if it takes a while to find them.
Stop Measuring Success by What You Used to Have
Here’s the hardest part: letting go of the old scoreboard. You used to make six figures. You used to be the boss. You used to be someone people envied. Now, you’re paying bills late and Googling how long canned soup lasts. But there’s a different kind of wealth you’re building now — one rooted in resilience, in honesty, in the grit it takes to start from zero. The cars, the office, the title — they were never the whole story. This time, you’re writing one that might actually last.
The aftermath of addiction doesn’t come with a tidy checklist. You’ll lose money, relationships, maybe even your sense of who you are. But if you keep showing up — not just to recover, but to your own financial life — things begin to change. Slowly. Quietly. You start to rebuild, not the same life you had, but a more honest one. One that doesn’t depend on performance or perception. You’re not just recovering from addiction. You’re recovering from the pressure to be someone you’re not. And that might just be the most valuable thing you’ve ever earned.
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Bethany Hatton, a retired librarian with 32 years of experience, created Prevent Addiction after her oldest grandson became addicted to opioids. Using the research skills she honed as a librarian, she dedicated herself to searching the internet to find the most reputable, reliable information to share on her site. Now, she writes on a variety of wellness topics for websites all over the internet.
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